Psalm 147:3 – He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

The only time we have total permission from God to become self-absorbed is when we are in crisis. If you read through Lamentations or the cries of David’s heart in the Psalms, you will see how these men were deep in their grief and couldn’t see anything but how they were feeling.

If God felt it important enough to include these stories in the Bible, then it must be important for us to know: when we are in deep grief, it is okay to focus completely on ourselves.

God gives no time limits or boundaries to our grief. All He asks is that we call out to Him. This experience is between the one who is grieving and God alone. He welcomes our anger, our denial, our tears, and our raw emotions. He knows each of us individually and does not have a formula or timeline for grief. All He wants is to walk with us daily—through every stage, even if it takes a lifetime. He will never leave us or forsake us.

God will also send people to help us through the grief process. Accept their help. Never be too proud to let someone serve you in any way they can.

When we begin to come out of our grief, all God asks is that we turn our focus toward Him and trust that He will take everything that was meant to harm us—and all that brought us deep sorrow—and redeem it. God can and will turn it around for our good and for His glory.

To Those Supporting Someone in Grief:

Supporting someone through grief is a ministry. Whether you’re giving spiritually or tangibly, here are some gentle reminders I like to keep in mind:

• Give without expecting thanks.
• Give without comparing yourself to what others are doing.
• Pray unceasingly for those who are grieving.
• Don’t expect your words or actions to erase the raw emotions. Just pray and encourage.
• You don’t have the answers—only God does. Share only what He leads you to share.
• Silence is a beautiful gift.
• Sometimes people need solitude. Give them space to process and rest.
• If grief reaches a point where someone may harm themselves or others, seek professional help immediately.
• Remember, grief can last a lifetime. Check in occasionally just to let them know you care.
• Let them know you’re thinking of them. A simple text, card, or email can brighten someone’s day. Don’t expect a response—just know you’ve reached out and made a difference.

A Final Thought

When it comes to your business or your job—your health must come first. God will provide.

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